How to find someone to hookup with online?

When it comes to hookup and one night dating, everybody knows where to find it. Some people prefer to find people in real life such as in bars and parties, etc. There are another group of people prefer a more efficient way---online hookup apps. Online hookup apps are indeed great platforms to find one night hookups or even serious relationship. No matter what you are looking for, you can find it there. Here I would like to share with you several tips regarding online hookups.

First be clear with yourself what you are looking for. Is it just one night hookup or you are also open to serious relationships if the right person come along, or you are only looking for someone to spend your life with? You should firstly get yourself clear with this question. After that, state that clearly in your profile.

Be honest. You need to be honest with what you are looking for and be honest with what kind of person you are. In other words, don’t pretend to be looking for serious relationship if you are not ready for that and vise versa. I know this might just hit you, but being honest is always the right thing to do. I also know that if you are open to serious relationships, you think you might have bigger opportunity to find someone to hookup with. However, that might hurt some people. There is nothing wrong and shame in hooking up, but if you are hurting people, maybe you should change another way to approach.

Have fun. Having fun is all that matters in a hookup and in a serious relationship. Especially for people who are looking for one night hookup, what is the point of it if you are not getting fun out of it? Therefore, do not force yourself into anything you don’t feel comfortable with. If your partner proposes to play BDSM while you are not interested, just tell him/her to leave it. If you know you are not going to enjoy it, don’t agree to it just for the reason to please your partner. Not worth it, because you are here for the same purpose---having fun. Why compromise? Being considerate is a great personality, but in such case, if you are only for hookups, having fun is the most important thing. However, if you are up for serious relationship, and your partner is interested in trying a BDSM, it is your decision to make whether to try it or not.

Last but not least, wearing condom. I know this issue has been addressed too many times, but I must re-emphasize it every time, because there are always a small minority of people falling on this, ending with either unplanned pregnancy or STDs. Wearing condom is non-negotiable no matter who you are with unless you are expecting a baby coming with your partner.