Any relationship is maintained by two people working together, and so is trans dating. If only one of them is making efforts, then such efforts are futile, because love is the work of two people, not one of them. So when you make an effort and the result is not as good as you expected, I think that's the time to end this transgender hookup and dating relationship.
I bet most of us have gone through break up. The process of breaking up is painful, but when you break away from a relationship that is not suitable for you, you will feel relaxed and relieved. Therefore, we should rationally examine our relationships, and then bravely end the negative love.
1. He doesn’t understand you
In a positive kinky dating relationship, two people should understand and support each other. Only such love is healthy and stable. In mutual understanding and tolerance, both sides can absorb the nutrition of this relationship, and then grow and progress together. Unfortunately, if your partner doesn't always understand your decisions and actions, you'll feel miserable.
His understanding is respect for you. If he really respects you, he will try to understand your logic, rather than just refute your point of view. What's more, in your partner's understanding, you become stronger because you know that there's someone who's always on the same line with you. But when you lose his understanding, the relationship will not work properly. That is to say, you can give up.
2. He doesn’t take care of your emotion
If your partner ignores your emotional changes or only takes care of his own feelings, it doesn't seem to me that the relationship is meaningful to stick to. There are two reasons why he can't take care of your emotions. One is that he didn't even realize that you were at a low ebb. If that's the case, it means he doesn't know you at all. In true love, your partner should be the person who knows you best. One look or action from you can accurately convey to him what you want to say. The other is that he catches your emotional changes, but your emotional fluctuations don't matter to him, so he's not trying to comfort you. Whatever the reason, it means that he doesn't love you so much.
3. He cheats on you
Love should be pure. They should be as transparent, without any secrets or concealments. Such relationship will give you an absolute sense of security. Although everyone has their own secrets, and this absolute transparent love does not exist, but at least, your date can not deceive you. It's reasonable that he has something he doesn't want to reveal, and you're not obliged to ask him to confess everything to you. But if he lies to you, it's a matter of trust and morality. So when he really makes such a mistake, you have to give him the chance to admit it first. If he still cheats you, then don't hesitate to leave him! Find pure dating app here.